Thursday, 12 January 2012

Halifax: the Titanic's undertaker


Next April the Nova Scotia town will mark the centenary of its role in retrieving and burying the ship’s passengers,

During the 9/11 emergency, many flights scheduled to land at airports in the northern United States were diverted to Halifax, Nova Scotia, on the eastern seaboard of Canada. For the people of Halifax this was a strange echo of the disaster that took place in the chill wastes of the North Atlantic 100 years ago next April 15: the sinking of the “unsinkable” passenger liner RMS Titanic with the loss of more than 1,500 lives.

The Titanic disaster, like 9/11, was an event that defined an epoch, and each April Halifax remembers the moment when it was dragged into the spotlight of history. Next year is the most significant anniversary of all, the centenary, and this proud maritime city is gearing up for a series of commemorations.

The role Halifax played in the Titanic story is little known on this side of the Atlantic. Yet it was a crucial one. Halifax was the Titanic’s coroner, undertaker and mourner. It gathered, identified and buried the bodies, and it did so with great diligence and respect. The poignant tales of love and loss uncovered in the process ensure that the sinking is remembered not just as a historic event but as a human tragedy on a colossal scale.

After Titanic clattered an iceberg at 11.40pm on April 14 1912 and sank at 2.20am on April 15, more than 1,500 (exact numbers are disputed) passengers and crew perished in the icy waters. The 700-plus survivors, crammed in lifeboats or clinging to wreckage, were picked up by RMS Carpathia and taken to New York. Behind them, in a seascape dotted with icebergs, they left a swirl of flotsam and human remains.

The task of dealing with this watery grave fell to the nearest major port, Halifax, 700 miles to the west. Titanic’s owner, the White Star Line, chartered several “cable ships” – usually used to repair transatlantic telegraph cables – to retrieve the dead. Theirs was a task grimmer than any ship’s in a horror story.

Loaded with coffins, ice, embalming fluid and body bags, these “death ships” recovered 328 bodies, of which 119 were buried at sea. “As far as the eye can see, the ocean was strewn with wreckage and debris,” a crewman recalled. “Bodies [were] bobbing up and down in the cold sea.”

As the ships and their grisly cargo returned to Halifax the city went into mourning. Black bunting was hung. Church bells tolled. Dotted across the city, sites associated with the tragedy can still be visited.

The Mayflower curling rink on Agricola Street, now an army-and-navy surplus store, served as a makeshift morgue, though the wealthiest victims, such as the American industrialist John Jacob Astor, received preferential treatment even in death: they were taken to the more salubrious surroundings of Snow’s funeral home on Argyle Street.

The original building is now incorporated into one of Halifax’s most popular restaurants, Five Fishermen, which buzzed with life on the Saturday evening I ate there (for an instantly sobering experience, ask to see the old coffin hoists still visible in the wine store). Opposite the former undertakers is St Paul’s, one of several churches where memorial and funeral services were held.

The bodies of 59 of the victims were reclaimed by their families. The remaining 150, from members of Titanic’s orchestra to coal stokers, were buried in three cemeteries in the city: Fairview, Mount Olivet and Baron de Hirsch. In Fairview, on an appropriately sombre Sunday morning of sheeting rain, I looked for the grave belonging to the great uncle of a friend, but I looked in vain as it turned out. The remains of 19-year-old Charles Davies, of the New Forest, were never found. He may lie still in the ocean, or beneath one of the 44 granite grave markers that say simply “Died April 15, 1912”, followed by a number (corresponding to the order in which the bodies were recovered).

A section of the Maritime Museum, on Halifax Waterfront, is a permanent memorial to Titanic. Exhibits include a piece of the life jacket reported to have been worn by John Jacob Astor, wood panelling from the first-class lounge, and a deckchair. This recliner is a metaphor in mahogany, for the notion of rearranging it and its phantom fellows has become an enduring emblem of futility.

The exhibition also confronts the uncomfortable truth that Titanic was a floating microcosm of the Edwardian class system, that “Despite the myth of 'women and children first [into the lifeboats]’ the survival rate for First Class men was higher than for Third Class children.”

It’s imagining the plight of these third-class children and their families, many of them forgotten and unable to reach the lifeboats, that brings it all home. The most poignant exhibit is a pair of baby’s shoes that belonged to “Body no 4”, a little boy whose identity has been the subject of much speculation down the years.

He was buried in Fairview Cemetery under a headstone inscribed “Erected to the memory of an unknown child whose remains were recovered after the disaster of the 'Titanic’…” Recent DNA tests have established that he was in fact 19-month-old Sidney Leslie Goodwin of Melksham, Wiltshire, whose parents and five siblings, all third-class passengers, also drowned.

But in a sense his identity doesn’t matter. Unknown Child, at the base of whose grave someone had left two fluffy toys and a dummy when I visited, stands not just for all the children who died on the Titanic, but for the death of innocence.

Friday, 7 October 2011

Woolly coffin sales have increased, says Pudsey firm


Woollen coffin

A West Yorkshire textile company which makes woollen coffins said it has seen a marked increase in sales.

Pudsey-based family firm Hainsworth said sales had risen from 35 a month in April to 75 in August.

Adam Hainsworth, a director at the firm, said: "There's a market for alternative coffins and funeral directors are now more open to them."

The biodegradable fleecy coffins are now exported to America, Australia and Europe.

The firm said it saw a 29% increase in August after their range of woollen coffins were included in a brochure by a national chain of funeral directors in July.

Mr Hainsworth said: "People who've seen them like the look of them. Not only are they aesthetically nice to look at but they're also green."

Royal request

He said sales were now averaging between 70 and 80 coffins a month compared with 20 sales in 2009, when it first launched.

The coffins are made from British sheep's wool and recycled cardboard.

Prince Charles recently asked for the woollen coffins to be exhibited at an event in London promoting sustainable living.

In a speech, the prince who started a wool campaign earlier this year, said: "I was particularly insistent that the people who make woollen coffins were there."

A manufacturer of uniforms and textiles for the emergency services and the military for more than 200 years, Hainsworth drew inspiration from 17th century burial methods for their woollen coffins.

The 1667 Burial in Wool Act said the dead, except plague victims, should be buried in English woollen shrouds.

Wednesday, 13 April 2011

Burial of man hanged in Bristol in 1821 to take place












A man who was hanged for murder in Bristol 190 years ago is due to be given a proper burial later.

John Horwood was sentenced to death in 1821, but because his body was used for dissection classes at the Bristol Royal Infirmary, he was never buried.

His skeleton has remained in a cupboard at the University of Bristol.

Mary Halliwell, from Leigh in Greater Manchester, was researching her family tree when she discovered she was related to Horwood.
'Disregardable and disposable'

He was the brother of Mrs Halliwell's great-great-great grandfather and lived in the village of Hanham near Bristol.

She discovered Horwood's skeleton was in a cupboard at the university, covered in cobwebs, with a rope around its neck.

"We did some more research and found a surgeon at the Bristol Royal Infirmary, Dr Richard Smith, had skinned the body, preserved and tanned it, before using it to bind all the papers referring to the case," Mrs Halliwell said.

The book, known as the Horwood Papers, is currently held by the Bristol Record Office.

Mrs Halliwell said she was saddened that while the "book of skin" was treasured by the city his remains were "disregarded and disposable".
John Horwood John Horwood's remains will be buried in the village where he lived

She contacted Hanham-based funeral director EC Alderwick which said it would help organise a proper burial for his remains.

Horwood was sentenced to death for the murder of Eliza Balsom, who also lived in the village.

Funeral director Austin Williams said Horwood's remains would be buried as part of a Christian service in a family grave alongside his father Thomas Horwood.

The funeral service is due to take place at Christ Church, Hanham, near Bristol, at 1230 BST.

Mr Williams said the burial would take place an hour later at 1330 BST, exactly 190 years to the hour when Horwood was hanged.

Thursday, 27 January 2011

Venezuela's Carlos Andres Perez burial limbo continues




The body of the former Venezuelan President Carlos Andres Perez will remain in a Miami funeral home until a trial in March to decide where he should be buried, a judge has ruled.

The body of Mr Perez is the subject of a legal stand-off between the two main women in his life.

His estranged widow wants to bring him back to Venezuela for burial.

But his long-term mistress insists he wanted to be buried in Florida, his home for more than a decade.

Lawyers for the two families have now agreed that his body will stay in a refrigerated unit in the funeral home until the legal stand-off is resolved, with the cost shared between them.

Mr Perez died of a heart attack in Miami on 25 December, at the age of 88.

The family feud erupted soon after his death.

Mr Perez's long-term partner Cecilia Perez Matos and their two daughters say he had made clear he did not want to be buried in Venezuela as long as President Hugo Chavez was in power.

But Mr Perez's estranged wife, Blanca Perez Rodriguez, whom he never divorced, insists she has a legal right to bring his body back to Venezuela. She and her children filed a suit to stop his burial in Florida.

Rocky presidency

Mr Perez served as president of Venezuela between 1974 and 1979, and again between 1989 and 1993.

His second term was marred by allegations of corruption. After standing down, he was sentenced to 28 months in prison for misappropriation of public funds.

He spent the first few months in a jail in Caracas, but was allowed to serve the rest of his term under house arrest.

He survived two coup attempts in 1992, the first of which was led by Mr Chavez, who was then a young army lieutenant colonel.

Based in Miami, Mr Perez fought extradition demands by the current Venezuelan government over his role in the suppression of riots in 1989, when hundreds of people were shot by the army.

Wednesday, 26 January 2011

Dog's presence at funeral home a surprise to some and a comfort to most



Terry Palmer remembers it well -- the moment that validated his decision to allow, of all things, a dog into his funeral home.

Palmer was making funeral arrangements for a family, and when one of the family members started to cry, the dog walked over to the woman and gently laid its head in her lap.

In that moment, Wilson, a therapy dog in training, offered the sort of solace only an animal could provide, Palmer said.

That's why the yellow Labrador retriever has been a fixture at Fawcett, Oliver, Glass and Palmer Funeral Home since his arrival this past September.

"He adds an extra dimension to what we do," Palmer said. "We notice that families are more relaxed with him around."

Palmer said it's important for a funeral home to feel like a home, not a mortuary, and Wilson helps accomplish that.

During visitations, he joins Palmer at the door where mourners appreciate his understated greetings.

"He doesn't rush to approach people, and I think they like that," Palmer said.

And yet, it's not uncommon to find kids tugging on Wilson's fur or grown men, dressed in suits, sitting on the floor and petting him.

"We tell them (families) we have a therapy dog in training and ask if it's alright. We have not had a single family say 'no,'" said Kim Palmer, Terry's daughter-in-law and Wilson's main handler.

"We've received several 'thank you' letters that specifically mentioned him," said Jon Palmer, Kim's husband.

Terry Palmer said the three of them first discussed the idea of introducing a dog into the funeral home environment a couple years ago.

"The kids took it and really ran with it," he said.

Jon and Kim Palmer were recent mortuary school graduates last fall when they first saw Wilson at the Ross County Humane Society and Animal Shelter.

"It was by chance that we ran across him, and he just had that look," Kim said.

"He came to work the very next day," Jon said. "He's been here pretty much every day since."

Like so many rescue dogs, Wilson was underweight and skittish when the Palmers adopted him. A previous owner had neglected him and left him to fend for himself in the outdoors, they said.

Thanks to a steady diet, liberal doses of affection and some obedience training, Wilson still is a little skittish, "but he's coming out of his shell," Kim said.

Wilson is docile when he needs to be, but he hasn't abandoned his canine tendencies. He occasionally chases his tail and likes to get wound up before crashing for a nap.

"He has a job, but it's very important for him to be a dog," Kim said.

Monday, 24 January 2011

A convention... for fans of undertakers?

BOURNEMOUTH is set to host the first ever convention dedicated to cult US television show Six Feet Under, which was set around a family-owned funeral business in California.

Organiser Brian Jenner hopes fellow fans will seize the opportunity to spend a weekend in the resort next August, and hear talks from an embalmer, an undertaker, academics, writers and former Daily Telegraph obituaries editor Andrew McKie.

He plans to offer them the chance to picnic in the “stunningly beautiful” Wimborne Road cemetery, sit in a hearse, watch a screening of the film Harold and Maude, and take part in sessions to discuss their favourite characters and episodes.

Although planning is in the very early stages, he also hopes to persuade some of the cast members and others involved with the programme to turn up.

HBO series Six Feet Under was created and produced by Alan Ball, who also wrote the 1999 Oscar-winning movie American Beauty and created the more recent TV hit True Blood.

Its 63 episodes – each starting with a death – revolved around the dysfunctional Fisher family and screened in the USA between 2001 and 2005. The stellar cast included James Cromwell, Rachel Griffiths, Mena Suvari, Patricia Clarkson and Kathy Bates.

Writer Mr Jenner said the programme had nearly half a million fans on Facebook, and some were already expressing interest in attending the convention.

“I was at school with Sam Mendes, director of American Beauty, which was Alan Ball’s first big hit. The fact that Alan Ball has written to me and wished me good luck I feel is an endorsement. The next step is to write to all the key members of the cast.”

Tickets are not due to go on sale until March.

Tuesday, 18 January 2011

Pioneering coffin cart unveiled.















A supplier of environmentally friendly funeral items is using the National Funeral Exhibition in June to showcase two of its latest products, one of which is new to the UK market.

Fine Timber Products, which is based on the border of Shropshire and Worcestershire, will be unveiling its pioneering coffin cart at the funeral service exhibition (stand C2A), as well as a water hyacinth and cane coffin which is a new addition to the firm’s portfolio.

Owner of FTP, James Meynell, said: “I can not think of a more appropriate event at which to display these products to the trade than at the NFE, though we will also be exhibiting our core range of seagrass, wicker and bamboo coffins.

“I am sure that the coffin cart, which is made of wicker and soft wood, will raise a few eyebrows but only because they are new to this country – I am pretty confident that there will be a positive reaction.

“I introduced the cart to our product list because there is often quite a distance for coffins to travel on these sites, and the carts are light, easy to manoeuvre and surprisingly robust.

“This is important because they will need to stand up well to the terrain of natural burial, which is where I see them being particularly useful. I personally like their appearance and I think they would blend in extremely well at both green and traditional funerals.”

FTP is also introducing oval examples of the water hyacinth and cane coffins to its existing range and Mr Meynell is confident that they will prove extremely popular.

“ They are certainly visually pleasing and robust, but perhaps more importantly their harvest actually aids the environment,” he said.

“We are procuring them from China where water hyacinth has to be controlled or it potentially clogs up lakes and waterways, blocking out sunlight which is vital for plants and starving the water of oxygen. Furthermore it grows like a weed and therefore it replenishes extremely easily.”

The ultimate hearse?




It’s been around a little while now, but I finally got a photo of the Maserati hearse from Intercar at Funexpo. The late Polish President Lech Kaczynski took his final journey in one, and for £250,000!!!!!!! I'll have two please.

Thursday, 13 January 2011

We are back!!!

Sorry for lack of posts. I've been busy with other projects to help the cause of the independents!

This is interesting.


Friday, 8 January 2010

but.....we are ok in Suffolk!








for now anyway!!!

Big freeze puts burials on hold - Portsmouth News


The snow is preventing burials from taking place at Roman Grove Cemetery in Portchester


Burials in Fareham have been cancelled this week because the ground is too hard to dig a grave.
Funerals at all 11 cemeteries run by Fareham Borough Council have been postponed because the ground has frozen solid in parts, including Roman Grove Cemetery in Portchester, pictured.

A review will be taken on Monday to see whether next week's burials will take place. Some cemeteries, like Anns Hill Cemetery in Gosport, were also shut yesterday because cemetery managers were worried about people slipping and hurting themselves on gravestones.

Most funeral directors have been unaffected as more families opt for cremations. But Coghlan funeral directors in Fareham have had to cancel two burials, one yesterday and one today, because of the freezing conditions.

Funeral director Geoff Collins said: 'We've had to cancel because the ground is so frozen you can't dig in the earth. We will rearrange but it's difficult because it's predicted the icy weather could last for a couple of weeks. We have to keep the bodies for longer but we're coping for the moment.

'But if the freezing weather carries on for much longer then it might become difficult.'

There are no burials in Havant this week.

Havant Borough Council will do a daily review to see if it's safe for next week's burials to go ahead.

In Gosport the next burial isn't until Wednesday. The borough council will make a decision next week whether funerals can safely take place.

Samantha Voller, who is in charge of cemeteries at Gosport council, said: 'Our graves for next week have already been dug so we don't have any issues with the hard ground.

'We're still taking bookings. But we'll make the decision next week about whether they can go ahead because if the weather is icy it may not be safe to carry coffins and for the families to walk on the frozen ground.

'We closed Anns Hill Cemetery yesterday because we didn't want people to slip and hurt themselves falling on gravestones or the hard ground.'

But burials in Portsmouth have defied the weather with two taking place yesterday.

Cemetery managers at Portsmouth City Council have also said upcoming burials will take place if it is safe to do so.

Portchester Crematorium has largely escaped the effects of the sub-zero weather.

Five funerals were cancelled on Wednesday because families struggled to reach the crematorium through the snow.

But they've all be rescheduled and funerals yesterday were not hindered by the icy roads.

So far there are no issues with storing bodies.

Hospital mortuaries have been unaffected as the majority of bodies for burial are kept at local undertakers.

But if the freezing weather continues and undertakers start to fill, then more bodies will have to be stored at mortuaries.

Meanwhile, youngsters are being warned not to walk on frozen ponds in Portsmouth after reports of kids skating on them.

The city council says the ice on Canoe Lake and Baffins Pond is not thick enough or safe to skate or play on.

Wednesday, 21 October 2009

Magpies 'feel grief and hold funerals'


Magpies feel grief and even hold funeral-type gatherings for their fallen friends and lay grass "wreaths" beside their bodies, an animal behaviour expert has claimed.


Dr Bekoff, of the University of Colorado, said these rituals prove that magpies, usually seen as an aggressive predator, also have a compassionate side.

The discovery raises the debate about whether emotions are solely a human trait or whether they can be found in all animals.

Previous studies have suggested that gorillas also mourn their dead while rats have empathy and cats form friendships.

Dr Bekoff said he studied four magpies alongside a magpie corpse and recorded their behaviour.

"One approached the corpse, gently pecked at it, just as an elephant would nose the carcase of another elephant, and stepped back. Another magpie did the same thing, " he said.

"Next, one of the magpies flew off, brought back some grass and laid it by the corpse. Another magpie did the same. Then all four stood vigil for a few seconds and one by one flew off."

After publishing an account of the funeral he received emails from people who had seen the same ritual in magpies, ravens and crows.

"We can't know what they were actually thinking or feeling, but reading their action there's no reason not to believe these birds were saying a magpie farewell to their friend," he wrote in the journal Emotion, Space and Society.

Those who see emotions in animals have been accused of anthropomorphism – the attribution of human characteristics to animals.

However, Dr Bekoff said emotions evolved in humans and animals because they improve the chances of survival.

"It's bad biology to argue against the existence of animal emotions," he said.

He also claims to have seen emotions in elephants. While watching a herd in Kenya he noticed an injured cow elephant who was only able to walk slowly.

"Despite her disability the rest of the herd walked for a while, stopped to look around and then waited for her to catch up.

"The only obvious conclusion we could see is the other elephants cared and so they adjusted their behaviour," said Dr Bekoff.

Saturday, 10 October 2009

New web site!

I've just started putting together a new web site at:-

http://www.funeralchoices.co.uk

I have only hosted the home page so far and would appreciate any advice, ideas and comments. I will be adding more over the next few weeks and I will put a post on here when I feel the site may be worth re-visiting.

More on "Bluehenge"


This is an artists impression provided by the University of Manchester, Tuesday, Oct. 6, 2009, of the Blue Stonehenge in western England. The drawing shows how scientists believe the “Blue Stonehenge” discovered by a team of archaeologists on the west bank of the River Avon in September 2009 may have looked. Researchers say a new find near the famous Stonehenge monument shows the religious significance of the site. The smaller prehistoric site is being called "Bluehenge" because of the color of the stones that were placed there thousands of years ago but have since disappeared. All that is left are the holes made when the stones were put in place. Researchers believe the newly discovered stone circle and the larger Stonehenge circle may mark a "domain of the dead" that was linked to the "domain of the living" by the River Avon. Experts say the stones were incorporated into the circle in about 2,500 B.C

Friday, 9 October 2009

Find: Stonehenge could be part of funeral complex

LONDON — The discovery of a small prehistoric circle of stones near Stonehenge may confirm the theory that the mysterious monument in southwest England was part of a massive funeral complex built around a river, researchers said Tuesday.

The new find shows that the second stone circle — dubbed "Bluehenge" because it was built with bluestones — once stood next to the River Avon about 1.75 miles (2.8 kilometers) from Stonehenge, one of Britain's best loved and least understood landmarks.

The find last month could help prove that the Avon linked a "domain of the dead" — made up of Stonehenge and Bluehenge — with an upstream "domain of the living" known as Durrington Wells, a monument where extensive signs of feasting and other human activity were found, said Professor Julian Thomas, co-director of the Stonehenge Riverside Project.

Project director Mike Parker Pearson said it is possible that Bluehenge was the starting point of a processional walk that began at the river and ended at Stonehenge, the site of a large prehistoric cemetery.

"Not many people know that Stonehenge was Britain's largest burial ground at that time," he said. "Maybe the bluestone circle is where people were cremated before their ashes were buried at Stonehenge itself."

There were very few signs of human life found around Stonehenge and Bluehenge, researchers said, lending credence to the idea that it was used as a funeral site, especially since there were signs that many human beings were cremated there.

A five-university team has been excavating the greater Stonehenge site since 2003 in a bid to unravel its meaning and use.

"This find certainly confirms the idea we've put forward that the river is of fundamental importance and links everything," Thomas said. "Everything is related to the river. That suggests that even before Neolithic time it may have had spiritual or religious significance. This find enhances the idea that all the monuments in this landscape are linked in various ways."

Researchers did not find the actual stones used to mark the smaller circle found by the river, but they did find holes left behind when the stones were removed.

The scientists believe the massive stones used for Bluehenge were dragged from the Welsh mountains roughly 150 miles (240 kilometers) away. There were clear indications that the gigantic stones from the Bluehenge site were later removed whole for use in the construction of Stonehenge, Thomas said.

They hope to use radiocarbon dating techniques to better pinpoint construction dates.

Stonehenge, a UNESCO World Heritage site, is a favorite with visitors from throughout the world and has become popular with Druids, neo-Pagans and New Agers who attach mystical significance to the strangely-shaped circle of stones, but there remains great debate about the actual purpose of the structure.

Rare excavation work at the actual Stonehenge site was begun last year in a coordinated effort to unearth materials that could be used to establish a firm date for when the first set of bluestones was put in place there.

Wednesday, 7 October 2009

Edgar Allan Poe finally getting proper funeral



BALTIMORE — For Edgar Allan Poe, 2009 has been a better year than 1849. After dozens of events in several cities to mark the 200th anniversary of his birth, he's about to get the grand funeral that a writer of his stature should have received when he died.

One hundred sixty years ago, the beleaguered, impoverished Poe was found, delirious and in distress outside a Baltimore tavern. He was never coherent enough to explain what had befallen him since leaving Richmond, Va., a week earlier. He spent four days in a hospital before he died at age 40.

Poe's cousin, Neilson Poe, never announced his death publicly. Fewer than 10 people attended the hasty funeral for one of the 19th century's greatest writers. And the injustices piled on. Poe's tombstone was destroyed before it could be installed, when a train derailed and crashed into a stonecutter's yard. Rufus Griswold, a Poe enemy, published a libelous obituary that damaged Poe's reputation for decades.

But on Sunday, Poe's funeral will get an elaborate do-over, with two services expected to draw about 350 people each — the most a former church next to his grave can hold. Actors portraying Poe's contemporaries and other long-dead writers and artists will pay their respects, reading eulogies adapted from their writings about Poe.

"We are following the proper etiquette for funerals. We want to make it as realistic as possible," said Jeff Jerome, curator of the Poe House and Museum.

Advance tickets are sold out, although Jerome will make some seats available at the door to ensure packed houses. Fans are traveling from as far away as Vietnam.

The funeral is arguably the splashiest of a year's worth of events honoring the 200th anniversary of Poe's birth. Along with Baltimore — where he spent some of his leanest years in the mid-1830s — Poe lived in or has strong connections to Boston, New York, Philadelphia and Richmond.

With the funeral angle covered, the Edgar Allan Poe Museum in Richmond staged a re-enactment last weekend of his death. Those with a more academic interest in Poe can attend the Poe Studies Association's annual conference from Thursday through Sunday in Philadelphia.

Visitors in Baltimore for the funeral can enjoy a new exhibit at the Baltimore Museum of Art, "Edgar Allan Poe: A Baltimore Icon," which includes chilling illustrations to "The Raven" by Edouard Manet.

Baltimore has a decided advantage over the other cities that lay claim to Poe, notes BMA director Doreen Bolger. "We have the body," she said.

This week, that's true in more ways than one. Jerome said he's gotten calls from people who thought he was going to exhume Poe's remains and rebury them.

"When they dug up Poe's body in 1875 to move it, it was mostly skeletal remains," Jerome said. "I've seen remains of people who've been in the ground since that time period, and there's hardly anything left."

Instead, Jerome commissioned local special-effects artist Eric Supensky to create an eerily lifelike — or deathlike — mock-up of Poe's corpse.

"I got chills," Jerome said Monday upon seeing the body for the first time. "This is going to freak people out."

The body will lie in state for 12 hours Wednesday at the Poe House, a tiny rowhome in a gritty section of west Baltimore. Visitors are invited to pay their respects.

Following the viewing will be an all-night vigil at Poe's grave at Westminster Burying Ground. Anyone who attends will have the opportunity to deliver a tribute.

On Sunday morning, a horse-drawn carriage will transport the replica of Poe's body from his former home to the graveyard for the funeral.

Actor John Astin, best known as Gomez Addams on TV's "The Addams Family," will serve as master of ceremonies.

"It's sort of a way of saying, 'Well, Eddie, your first funeral wasn't a very good one, but we're going to try to make it up to you, because we have so much respect for you,'" said Astin, who toured as Poe for years in a one-man show.

The service won't be a total lovefest, however. The first eulogy will come from none other than Griswold.

"People are asking me, 'Jeff, why are you inviting him? He hated Poe!'" Jerome said. "The reason is, most of these people defended Poe in response to what he said about Poe's life, so we can't have this service without having old Rufus sitting in the front row, spewing forth his hatred."

Eulogies will follow from actors portraying, among others, Sarah Helen Whitman, a minor poet whom Poe courted after his wife's death, and Walt Whitman, who attended the dedication of Poe's new gravestone in 1875 but didn't feel well enough to speak. Writers and artists influenced by Poe, including Arthur Conan Doyle and Alfred Hitchcock, will also be represented.

Jerome expects to cry — one reason he won't be speaking. Even his rivals are impressed with the scale of the tribute.

"Annoyed as I am with Baltimore sometimes, I have to give them credit," said Philadelphia-based Poe scholar Edward Pettit, who argues his city was of greater importance to Poe's life and literary career. "Baltimore has done an awful lot to maintain the legacy of Poe over the last 100-some years."

Thursday, 1 October 2009

Two feet in the grave

I've added the Open University booklet that accompanied the programme on BBC1 with Richard Wilson. It's actually not a bad read!!!!


http://www.funeralhelp.co.uk/Downloads.html

Please have a look.

I have just added something I feel is very important to the following pages on our site.


http://www.funeralhelp.co.uk/Green%20Funerals.html

http://www.funeralhelp.co.uk/eForests.html


Please have a look and sign up if you feel it's worthwhile.

Thanks,

Nick

Friday, 25 September 2009

People's ashes left uncollected for years

The Canterbury Star


City crematoriums and funeral directors are storing the cremated remains of hundreds of people whose relatives fail to collect them.

The macabre reality of uncollected ashes is part of a national trend, with some firms in the country holding the remains of up to 1000 people.

Many funeral directors are now being forced to put measures in place to ensure they are not holding onto ashes for families for long periods of time.

In Christchurch, crematoriums storing ashes include the Canterbury Crematorium in Linwood, which currently stores 545 sets of ashes, and the Harewood Memorial Gardens and Crematorium, which holds 488.

Most funeral directors in the city could also hold anywhere from 10 to 100 sets of ashes they have collected for families at any one time.

Nationally, between 60% and 70% of people are now cremated rather than buried.

Funeral Directors’ Association vice president Tony Garing, from John Rhind Funeral Directors in Christchurch, said the number of ashes left uncollected was astounding.


He said the onus was on the families to make a decision about what to do with the ashes, and many funeral directors would often collect ashes from the crematoriums on the relatives’ behalf.

However, because of the logistics of storing large numbers of ashes, many funeral directors were now not collecting them unless they had clear instructions what to do with them.

Mr Garing said they currently held well over 100 sets of ashes in their storeroom, some dating to the 1960s.

“If you went to any funeral home you would find ashes,” he said. “It’s a very emotive thing, that’s the problem.

“It is also very hard to contact families. Many (contacted) think it was dealt with years ago.”

Cremation Society of Canterbury manager Barbara Terry said common reasons for people failing to collect “cremains” was that it was too traumatising, the deceased had no relatives or friends left, or people may want the ashes to be held until a surviving spouse passed away so the ashes could be buried together.

Some people also waited until the anniversary of a death or a birthday to collect ashes.

Mrs Terry said a couple had come into the Cremation Society earlier this year looking for information on their genealogy, and were horrified to find a grandmother’s ashes had being waiting for collection for nearly 30 years.

“They were horrified,” she said.

Mrs Terry said the “respectful thing” for any deceased was for a decision to be made on what to do with their remains.

“You don’t arrange a burial then leave the casket beside the grave and walk away,” she said.

But the reality was, the decision to collect ashes was up to the families.

“There are no rules. They (the ashes) are in safekeeping. We do take the guardianship of ashes very seriously.”

She said all ashes were meticulously stored in an urn and given an identification number.

“Every five to 10 years, depending how the volumes are looking, we try again to contact families. If we have no success we inter the ashes into a grid in a set location,” she said.

However, these could be retrieved if someone came to collect them.

Tuesday, 22 September 2009

From Malta.....Horse-drawn hearses back from the dead




The next time you spot a somewhat eerie carriage, being drawn by black horses, clad in black feathers and a cloak, driven by a man in a black suit and top hat, don't be fooled into thinking it's a scene out of Dracula.

The chances are you will spot one on the roads some time soon. Horse-drawn carriage hearses were last seen on our streets some 40 years ago but an undertaker has dug up his collection and is breathing new life into them, following public demand. Louis Borg's resurrection of the horse-drawn hearses comes in the wake of the liberalisation of the motorised market, which led him to diversify, giving him the edge over double the competitors he had before.

But he does not want to create another monopoly and is willing to extend the service of his restored carriages to other undertakers everywhere if their clients ask for it.

In fact, he does not mind if he fails to make money "as long as I revive the tradition," he said, touring his Sliema garages, piled with carriage paraphernalia including papier-mâché angels and equestrian equipment.

All he wants is to unearth that sense of respect for the dead that comes with the carriages. On their first appearance after four decades last week, they commanded much reverence from the man in the street, Mr Borg pointed out.

"Everyone bowed their heads, made the sign of the cross, looked in awe and moved aside. Normally, when we use the cars, it could be any other vehicle on the road. Nobody gives way," he continued.

Mr Borg has been driving the dead for 30 years and had never experienced such a scenario, which he deems fit for a funeral.

Some of his carriages are up to 120 years old and, unlike other undertakers, who sold them overseas and stripped them when they stopped using them in 1970, the Borg family had the foresight to keep theirs in storage.

Now he is bringing back from the dead his first-class carriage (tal-kewba), which was used by "rich Sliema residents"; the prima and sekonda, which are for lower levels of society respectively, but equally elaborate to the fresh eye; and the white version for babies and single women.

The set comprises the priest's carriage, which would also transport the altar boy dressed as he would have back then and carrying the large cross, sticking out of the window as tradition would have it.

In a €60,000 investment, Mr Borg is restoring them to their original state, using nothing but antique items, even down to the bolts and buttons.

In two weeks, a set of four carriages should be rearing to go and the whole project should be complete in nine months, when the undertaker would be able to carry out three funerals of the sort simultaneously. It cost Mr Borg around €5,000 to restore the prima and €3,500 for the priest's carriage, which comes complete with an old bell to function as a horn in case a driver gets distracted.

"This did not exist in the original but at least it is old too," he said, determined to remain in the past. It still has the original number plate - 260 from 1901.

He is even buying rubber tyres from overseas to put round the wheels to reduce the noise and be able to drive into Mdina and Valletta.

In fact, he plans to drive the carriages everywhere, according to requests. "We can go from any church in the area to the cemetery but would probably drive by car from Mater Dei Hospital to avoid the hills," he said.

His first carriage funeral from Msida to the Naxxar cemetery took 25 minutes - only 10 minutes more than it would have by car - and ran smoothly, he said.

"I am using traffic police each time," he said. "But anyway, everyone just moves out of the way."

Between 1959 and 1970, the public had the option of the motorised and horse hearses but then the latter were buried because it was more comfortable for undertakers to turn the key in the ignition and drive off.

"I have been receiving requests for these carriages for the last 15 years, particularly from the elderly in the villages. Mercedes and Rolls Royce are nothing next to them in their view," Mr Borg said.

Despite the added hassles, the carriage funerals are expected to cost "only a bit more" than the common cars.

Mr Borg already has six horses in his extensive fleet and is buying more from overseas. Now, all he needs is the government to provide him with a hangar in the Marsa area, where he can display all the options for clients to make their death wish.